What's so wrong with me, that no guy ever really wants to be with me? Why do they say they do, but fall for someone else? What did i do? What can i do? What's so wrong with me!?!
Sometimes I feel the exact same way. I'm not sure how old you are or if you're in school or not but I think I've sort of figured it out while being at college. Okay so here's what I have discovered(I may be completely wrong but it's definitely proven to be true in my life anyway). In the group of friends that I have, I have one of the more toned bodies. I'm really athletic and spend alot of time at the gym while the other girls don't seem to care as much as I do -- lucky them. Anyways, I couldn't believe the fact that every night that we'd go out and party they'd all hookup with atleast one guy and sometimes bring one back to our dorm or go home with the guy -- yeah my friends are a little promiscuous. I was so bothered by this because I just didn't understand why they were getting guys and I wasn't. As most people with E.D., I don't think very highly of myself but I did think I was prettier or had a better looking body than them atleast. The thing that they have that I don't is confidence. They would approach guys like it was nothing and be flirty and fun because they believed in themselves that they have something to offer. I think that's something that we lack and maybe if we tried to improve our confidence levels, which is easier said than done, but something we should both try. Sorry my comment is so long but I hope I helped!! xo
Sometimes I feel the exact same way. I'm not sure how old you are or if you're in school or not but I think I've sort of figured it out while being at college. Okay so here's what I have discovered(I may be completely wrong but it's definitely proven to be true in my life anyway). In the group of friends that I have, I have one of the more toned bodies. I'm really athletic and spend alot of time at the gym while the other girls don't seem to care as much as I do -- lucky them. Anyways, I couldn't believe the fact that every night that we'd go out and party they'd all hookup with atleast one guy and sometimes bring one back to our dorm or go home with the guy -- yeah my friends are a little promiscuous. I was so bothered by this because I just didn't understand why they were getting guys and I wasn't. As most people with E.D., I don't think very highly of myself but I did think I was prettier or had a better looking body than them atleast. The thing that they have that I don't is confidence. They would approach guys like it was nothing and be flirty and fun because they believed in themselves that they have something to offer. I think that's something that we lack and maybe if we tried to improve our confidence levels, which is easier said than done, but something we should both try. Sorry my comment is so long but I hope I helped!! xo
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